Mantras to deal with tendencies of bad attitude, bad character, and incompetence

There are the things you need to consider when dealing with yourself and other people. To deal with your biases. To deal with your flaws that has tendency to be misunderstood. To improve yourself in communicating well your thoughts and feelings. To build long-lasting bond and relationship, not only with your family, friends, but also people you meet along the phases of your life:

Mantras you can fill in:

• I feel [or I am] frustrated because of ___ , but I have to ___, thus___ .
• I feel [or I am] disappointed because of ___, but I have to ___, thus ___ .
• I feel [or I am] mad because of ___, but I have to ___, thus ___ .
• I feel [or I am] humiliated because of ___, but I have to ___, thus ___ .
• I feel [or I am] pressured because of ___, but I have to ___, thus ___ .
• I feel [or I am] annoyed because of ___, but I have to ___, thus ___ .
• I feel [or I am] upset because of ___, but I have to ___, thus ___ .

There are lots more of things to fill in, let me know if you have suggestions.

Annons

2019SEP17 – Expectations on setting the bar high

If you are setting the bar high, expect that people around you has great achievements, and what you need to do is to keep up. If they do not have, biggest rule is not to look down, and instead, bring them to your level, and be patient if you are sensing dishonesty.

But let me tell you the truth:

Everyone has set of expertise and flaws. Even if they have or do not have a great profile, that doesn’t mean they are right nor wrong respectively. You know that language in each individual are not the same. What they know might hide in a form of different words. You just need to ask the right questions that are clear to all involved parties. As your task is to seek the answers that make sense to your questions.